Tuesday, October 19, 2010

20 Sex Tips Every Couple Should Know

By Dr. Ruth Westheimer

Could your sex life use a boost? You're not the only one. Over the years, I've been asked every question there is, from getting in the mood to learning how to become orgasmic. That's why I've put together 20 of my best tips right here. Here's to many more years of better sex!

1. Communicate with your partner about your sexual relationship. This is the most important tip I can give because it will strengthen the bond between you. While it might feel uncomfortable at first, you'll feel even closer in the end. Tell him what you like most about your sex life. Don't be afraid to ask for something new or different. Just be sure that you don't talk about major sexual issues while you are about to have sex or having sex. Bring up such topics outside of the bedroom, during a quiet walk some evening. That way you can air your feelings without spoiling an intimate moment.

2. Start foreplay as early as possible. Foreplay can begin as early as the morning of the night when you expect to have sex. Linger over your morning kiss instead of rushing off with a peck. During the day, do little things for each other: Give him a quick call at work or send him a sweet email. When he gets home, massage his shoulders for a couple of minutes. By increasing your emotional connection, you'll slowly start the arousal process, gradually increasing your level of arousal all day -- and all night.

3. During the day, remember that you are a sexual being. Even on the most hectic of days, take a few moments to think about your lover and maybe indulge in a quick sexual fantasy.

4. Make plans for sex. When both halves of a couple lead busy lives, sometimes the only way to leave time for sex is to literally put it on your schedule.

5. Don't forget that sex is supposed to be fun. The more fun you make it, the more enjoyable it will be. Experiment with toys and lingerie, or anything that creates a special mood for you. Memorable sex isn't limited to times when you have the most intense orgasms; it just has to be memorable in some positive way.

6. Start with a trip to the supermarket. Buy only items that could be integrated into love play, like whipped cream, chocolate sauce and maybe a banana or cucumber. Not only will you both be very aroused when you get home, but you'll probably get quite a laugh from the look on the face of the checkout clerk.

7. Take turns initiating sex. Sex should be fun for both parties, and getting things started should be just as equal -- and just as enjoyable. And just because you're not in the mood, that shouldn't stop you. Chances are your body will react to his and you'll become aroused in the process. Isn't Mother Nature great?

8. Remember that sexual stimulation is directly linked to intellectual stimulation. If you want to have sex later that night, be sure to spend time talking to each other first. Instead of watching TV in different rooms, tape your favorite show and spend some time together. Read some poems to each other, discuss the day's headlines, plan your next vacation or pull out an album of old photos.

9. Try to guess each other's thoughts. Can you actually read your lover's mind? Probably not, but why not give it a try? Maybe you'll discover that you really are on the same wavelength.

10. Pretend that this is the last time you're going to see each other for quite some time. We've all seen those heart-wrenching pictures of soldiers saying goodbye to their wives as they go off to active duty. The next time you're with your partner, hold him or her in your arms and put yourselves in those shoes, or Army boots as it were. The emotions you'll feel will, I believe, give you a new appreciation for each other.

11. Make a list of favorites. Everybody has favorite -- favorite colors, flowers, flood, etc. Do you know your partner's favorite bedroom activities? Take a piece of paper and make two columns. On one, write down what you like best, and on the other, write what you think he likes best. Then switch and read each other's lists aloud.

12. Make even household chores sexy. If doing the laundry is a chore you don't like, here's a way to make it more interesting: Whoever takes on this duty has the right to request a striptease from his or her partner en route to the washing machine.

13. Keep time. How long does your partner like to have a particular body part licked, caressed, nibbled or otherwise tended to? Find out by using a stopwatch. The experiment should be fun the first time, plus just think of how handy that information will be in the future.

14. Get up and dance. Sitting at home, looking at each other with nothing to do? Put a CD on and dance. It will get your blood flowing, and who knows what that will lead to?

15. Share your novel ideas. If you're hesitant to share your erotic fantasies with your partner, afraid of what he or she will think of you, suggest writing an erotic story together one night. Once he sees what you've dreamed up for your "characters," your partner will definitely get the hint about what you have in mind for yourself.

16. Overcome RE (rental embarrassment). If you are embarrassed to rent an erotic video in your local rental outlet because you're afraid you'll be seen by someone you know, drive a few miles away and rent one someplace where you don't know anybody. Or better yet, buy one online or use a rental company with a delivery service.

17. Create a classic -- but don't keep it around for too long. If you find it exciting to tape yourselves making love, go ahead. But after you've watched the tape a few times, be sure to erase it so that it doesn't fall into the wrong hands.

18. Make intercourse more orgasmic. Many women don't get sufficient clitoral stimulation from intercourse in the missionary position to have an orgasm. But if she's on top, her partner's hands are free to stroke her clitoris, which might be just what she needs to have an orgasm.

19. Caution, clitoris ahead. Though the clitoris is the seat of a woman's orgasm, some women find that direct contact is too strong and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stroked rather than the clitoris itself.

20. Skimp on the alcohol for better sex later. While a glass of wine, or even two, can be relaxing and lead to improved sex after a hectic day, too much alcohol dulls the senses. So while sex and alcohol can mix, just be careful not to drown your desire

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Thursday, April 29, 2010

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Friday, March 19, 2010

The Amazing Heath Benefits Of Sex


By Juice at happyher.com

I am absolutely passionate about sex and living a sensual lifestyle! The passion for me is not just because it feels SO good, which is a great bonus. It’s also because of the many health increasing benefits. Let’s look at some of these:

* Having sex improves your sense of smell. After sex, production of the hormone prolactin surges which causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons in the brain’s olfactory bulb, which is your brain’s smell center.

* Having sex reduces your risk of heart disease. In a 2001 follow-on to the Queens University study mentioned above, researchers focused on cardiovascular health. They found that having sex three or more times a week, men reduced their risk of heart attack or stroke by half.

* Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones just about every muscle in the body. A vigorous bout burns some 200 calories–about the same as running 15 minutes on a treadmill. Sex also boosts production of testosterone, which leads to stronger bones and muscles. Men’s Health magazine has gone so far as to call the bed the single greatest piece of exercise equipment ever invented.

* Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases the chemical endorphin into the bloodstream that gives you a sense of euphoria and well-being.

* Sex is a great for relieving pain. Levels of the hormone oxytocin surge to five times their normal level right before you orgasm. The surge of oxytocin releases endorphins, which alleviate the pain of everything from headache, arthritis, and even migraines. For women, sex also prompts production of estrogen, which can reduce the pain of PMS and make the whole menstrual process go more smoothly with reduced symptoms. The hormone DHEA also spikes to five times its normal level and this is associated with longevity, enhanced libido, building muscle mass, and warding off depression.

* Sex improves your immune system. Wilkes University in Pennsylvania says people that have sex once or twice a week show a thirty percent higher level of an antibody called immunoglobulin A, which is known to boost the immune system.

* Oral sex helps give you healthier teeth. Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium and other minerals shown to retard tooth decay.

* Sex helps keep the prostate healthy. Some urologists believe they see a relationship between infrequency of ejaculation and cancer of the prostate. Be careful with this one guys. Having sex with multiple partners can, all by itself, raise a man’s risk of cancer by up to 40%. That’s because he runs an increased risk of contracting sexual infections. You are better off doing it solo if you don’t have a monogamous partner. A study recently published by the British Journal of Urology International asserts that men in their 20s can reduce their chance of getting prostate cancer by ejaculating more than five times a week by third.

* Sex is the perfect beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when woman make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which make hair shiny and skin smooth. For both men and women, it reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes, and blemishes due to the sweat that’s produced when you’re engaging in it. It cleanses your pores and makes your skin glowing.

* Sex makes you more attractive. When you are sexually active, your body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones which naturally attract others to you.

* Sex is 10 times more effective than valium. It’s the safest tranquilizer in the world.

* Sex helps you breathe better. Sex is a natural antihistamine which helps combat asthma and hay fever.

* Sex helps your intimate relationship. Taking time to create wonderful sexual experiences for your partner increases your emotional, mental, and spiritual bonds with them. Don’t forget those same benefits can be applied to yourself!

All of these great things going for sex and it’s fun and feels SO good. So, put sex at the top of your priority list of your Daily Things to Do. We’ll explore lots of different ways to do it, how to use toys, and how to stay in the mood, and whatever else we think of to help your sex life explode with possibilities!

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Sunday, March 7, 2010

Brown Bag Party Goes Phthalate Free, Offers Safer Sex Toys

Press Release: Costa Mesa, CA. - Saturday, March 6th, 2010

Romance home party company Brown Bag Party, today announced their commitment to completely eliminate the sale of any adult products they offer that contain Phthalates as of October 1st, 2010.

"I'm so happy to finally announce our new product directive, it will truly change the way customers look at our company," said Peter Palmiotto, CEO of Brown Bag Party. "Our goal is to continually improve our products from not only from a customer demand standpoint, but from a quality of materials standpoint as well," he said.

"While the use of phthalates in adult toys is still a hotly debated topic, we felt that it's our duty to our romance consultants to remove any chance of our customers saying 'no' to any of our products. Like it or not, anti-phthalate customers exist and are growing in numbers. This improvement keeps our customers safe and happy, and shows our Brown Bag Party consultants we're committed to quality and consistently improving what we offer," Palmiotto added.

"Regardless of any potential downsides to the use of phthalates, if we ever have the opportunity to remove chemicals from our products, we should, and so should others in this marketplace. There are enough phthalate-free options today from the dozen or so mega-distributors that there's no reason not to. Brown Bag Party would like to be as pro-active as possible," he explained.

"This is a big step for Brown Bag Party and a huge capital commitment to change out 10 to 15 products," said Palmiotto. "The good news is Brown Bag Party already offers 50 adult products that are phthalate free, so we don't have that far to go. It's been a personal goal of mine since our inception and we're now ready to go completely phthalate free."

For more information about Brown Bag Party or to shop online, please visit www.SassyPartyGirl.com.

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Wednesday, February 10, 2010


Consultants Needed Now

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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Surviving Valentine's Day When You're Single

How To Beat The Singles Blues On Valentine's Day
By A. Ford

You know Cupid is out there somewhere, lurking behind rose bushes, flying through clouds, pulling back his bow, penetrating the hearts of unsuspecting passers-by and transforming lonely singles into lovesick couples, but sometimes it seems impossible to get a dose of Cupid's magic, especially this time of year. Just because the matchmaker has not made you a match does not mean you need to become a Valentine Humbug. With a little perspective and little self love you'll be ready go all out--instead of feel left out--on February 14.

Step One

Tell the right story. The story you create about your situation plays a major roll in determining how you will feel about your life. You're doomed if you tell yourself, "I don't have somebody special to cuddle with this Valentine's Day. I never have anybody to cuddle with on Valentine's Day. It's obviously a sign that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life." Instead, try telling yourself, "Not having a lover for this one holiday does not mean I will be without love forever. While I may not have the relationship I long for today, I will have it eventually."

Step Two

Don't internalize! Don't apologize! Don't feel bad about not having big Valentine's Day plans. Don't let others get you down about being single. When people inquire about your relationship status, don't reply with sheepish embarrassment or shame. You may be single, but that doesn't mean you aren't beautiful, desirable, talented, fulfilled, joyous and exuberant.

Step Three

Keep the day in perspective. Valentine's Day is a cliché, consumer-driven holiday more than anything else. Don't give it more energy than it deserves.

Step Four

Accept that having a partner does not guarantee that you will be saved from loneliness. I assure you that there are many couples who will not be having fun this Valentine's Day. How do I know? I've been there. And I'm sure you have too. If you've ever been in a relationship you know that loneliness and let-down exist even inside a couple. I'm not saying that you should bask in the disappointment of others, but I am saying to remember that dating somebody on Valentine's Day does not insure that you will have a fun Valentine's Day.

Step Five

Flirt for the sake of flirting. Flirting is a grossly underestimated drug. A witty comment or a sweet smile exchanged with someone you are attracted to brings a sparkle to your eye, a spring to your step and makes you feel like life is worth living. Most of us don't flirt nearly enough and some of use believe that flirting is only useful if it leads to a date. Flirting is valuable in and of itself. The more you flirt, the better you feel, so start flirting everywhere you go.

Step Six

Celebrate all love. We often get trapped believing that the only love worth celebrating is romantic love. While this is one great type of love, it is not the only type of love. This Valentine's Day recognize all the love in your life from your family, friends, coworkers and neighbors. Even give thanks for the kindness you receive from the people on the periphery of you life, such as your bank teller and barista. It is not one romantic relationship, but rather an intricate web of relationships that make life rich and keep us feeling connected and like a part of something bigger.

Step Seven

Embrace new role models. If you only look to people who are married with 2.5 kids, a dog and a white picket fence as role models for the ideal type of life, you're sure to make yourself miserable. There are so many diverse ways to live, to develop relationships, to give and receive love. Find inspiration from all types of people in all types of situations. Happiness takes on many forms. Look to those who live outside the box and discover original, unexpected ways to create an abundant life for yourself.

Step Eight

Love now. If you wait for the perfect person and the perfect circumstance to give your love, you'll never love. Love is not like money. It is not to be saved, carefully budgeted and spent only in a calculated manner. Love does grow on trees. Love is bottomless. Love freely and immediately. Make every day a love spending spree. 

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Monday, February 8, 2010

Tips for Men to Make Her Valentine's Day Unforgettable

A Valentine's Day To Remember: Tips For Men
By J. Samuel

February 14th is just around the corner, and it's once again time for our Special Valentine to expect to receive the royal treatment from their male counterparts. Wrong! Generally, women would say they receive relatively ordinary treatment during most of their Valentine dates. This year, to prove your partner wrong, treat her to a complete and well thought-out evening she won't forget. To make this evening a memorable one, spoil her with the little things that she probably forgot even existed.

date preparation

It goes without saying that this special date will require you to wear your most attractive attire. It might be a good idea to buy yourself a new shirt or sweater, preferably in the tones or colors she likes seeing you in. Think about it, how do you react when she buys a new sexy ensemble? Once you are dressed and ready to go, stop at the local flower shop to buy her a dozen of the best-looking red roses. On your way to pick her up, make sure your hair is just right and your breath smells fresh.

To start the evening smoothly, be punctual. Being on time for your rendezvous will set the tone for a smooth and pleasant evening. When picking her up (assuming you have a car), be a gentlemen and open the car door for her. While doing so, present her with the roses and a greeting kiss. These little details of opening the car door and handing her roses might seem like fussy details to many men, but for Valentine's Day, they are little stunts used to impress most women.

restaurant setting

Settle on a restaurant with a cozy and romantic ambiance, and don't forget to make reservations. Preferably, choose a restaurant with good background music a candlelight setting. Opt for a small and quiet restaurant instead of a busy, mainstream one. This will accentuate the romantic tone of the evening.

details & attention

When entering the restaurant, take care of opening the door and asking the host to be seated. Taking care of such simple details like opening the door and letting her in before you, will set the evening apart from conventional dates. Many might say these details are exaggerated and useless, but women generally like a man with good manners. Women enjoy the extra attention given to them.

After properly helping her take a seat, engage yourself in a deep conversation focusing almost exclusively on her. Instead of asking her about mundane daily activities, establish a romantic discussion focused on her needs. Ask her what she likes to eat or drink. Ask her what her future plans are. In other words, tailor the conversation around her the entire evening.

By simply staring in her eyes and ignoring what is happening around you, you can focus your thoughts on her and make her feel cherished. Also, in case the waiter forgets to ask how her foods was, inquire on whether she liked it or not. Make sure her wine glass is filled when needed, and compliment her every time you have a chance.

When coffee and dessert is being served, find out what she feels like doing next. Pick up the tab, and follow through with a special evening full of surprises.


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